mental load is a subtle, but fully charged diy undertaking against these live, laugh, love conditions of existence. Looking to share queering endeavours & sensory surprises for the adventurous hearts and curious minds, they operate from the swamps and loopholes, are into in the invisible and unheard of, know no bounds but love to cockishly dance on the borderlines.

• just let me know whats there, send me a photo/text about the setup so i can prepare to adapt! CDJ (CDJ-2000NXS2 preferred) and Mixer (Pioneer preferred) is nice.

• if you want me to use vinyl: ask in advance so i can prepare transport and how to carry, no rave sets, only birds screaming and crying and bells and shit.

• I eat all foods.

• I drink no beer, but other alcohol is appreciated: liquors/wine is ok.  

• Your local strain of indoor/outdoor for me to taste is much appreciated :3

• I'm sometimes overwhelmed by noises, lights and smells, so a calm place to withdraw to is much appreciated.

• I wish not to be left alone with cismen or be touched by any cismen without asking; generally asking is preferred and reading the room while interacting also.

• homestay, tent etc. all ok, pls just inform me in advance and keep in mind about the point before (!)

• I will not participate in festivals, line-ups where not at least 50% of the artists are TINFA (not only ciswomen pls!) and participation and inclusion in all fields of organizing (beyond artists on stage) by marginalized groups (queers/the dolls™/PoGM etc.) is essential and recommended for. No party if we can’t all party, thank you <3

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• Email: surelymentalload@gmail.com